Bullying, toxic, predatory, and coercively controlling behaviours in workplaces.

In general, workplace bullying refers to being intentionally singled out for the sole purpose of intimidating, threatening and/or embarrassing the target.

Employers in most countries have a legal responsibility to identify and control hazards and risks associated with workplace bullying. Unfortunately, the breadth of behaviours which represent bullying are rarely fully understood by leaders and often lack transparency, so workplace bullies persist with their behaviours over long periods of time. This poses a serious RISK to organisations.

A selection of behaviours which constitute bullying taken from Occupational Health and Safety legislation from different countries, include:

  • verbal abuse;

  • belittling;

  • unfair allocation of tasks and or working hours;

  • manipulation;

  • yelling;

  • excluding employees from conversations or activities;

  • abusive or offensive e-mails, social media activity or other correspondence; 

  • unreasonable demands, unnecessary pressure and impossible deadlines targeted at an employee or group of employees;

  • undermining a person’s work performance; and

  • deliberately withholding necessary work-related information or resources or supplying incorrect information.

Most people are unaware that all these behaviours are collectively displayed by high functioning psychopaths and narcissists in workplaces. In most cases, where bullying takes place, a person of Dark Personality (high functioning psychopath or narcissist) is responsible.

Increasingly employees are willing to act to protect their rights.

This further increases the risk for organisations.

It also increases the importance of differentiating between behaviours that are bullying or toxic and those that are assertive, legal, appropriate, and part of normal business functioning but may produce discomfort.

All these issues elevate the need for training and education on bullying and toxic behaviours, how to recognise them, how to respond to targets/victims; how to differentiate between reports of legitimate bullying behaviours versus disenfranchisement with appropriate behaviours; how to address bullying behaviours without increasing risk.

We cover these issues in our advisory work and training and education programs.


Employers in most countries have a legal responsibility to identify and control hazards and risks associated with workplace bullying.

Consulting and advisory.

We provide input, feedback, and advice to workplaces in relation to bullying, toxic and predatory behaviours. Some of the specific services we offer are included below.

  • Clarification of whether a set of behaviours in an individual constitutes bullying and propose steps an organisation or workplace can take to manage the behaviours.

  • Advice on how to manage individuals who have engaged in bullying.

  • Advice on how to support individuals who have been bullied.

  • Identification of organisation or workplace vulnerabilities and risks regarding bullying and toxic behaviours.

  • Support for organisations and workplaces who wish to grow their capability in identifying and addressing bullying and toxic behaviours.

  • Help people understand the full set of behaviours that constitute bullying, toxic and predatory behaviours.

  • Advise on and support with rebuilding cultures and dynamics damaged because of bullying and toxic behaviours.


Training and education.

Our programs.

  • Contact the Kalmor Institute for a program outline.

  • Contact the Kalmor Institute for a program outline.


Coaching and on-on-one work.

We offer individual coaching and one-on-one work for people who are responsible for managing bullying, toxic and/or predatory behaviours.

We offer individual coaching and one-on-one work for those who have experienced or are currently experiencing bullying, toxic and/or predatory behaviours.

Our coaching and one-on-one work is delivered in four session programs.


Presentations and speaking engagements.

We offer presentations for large groups, including leadership forums and conferences, about understanding, recognising, and addressing bullying and toxic behaviours. We also offer presentations on how to identify and address predatory behaviours and coercive controlling behaviours. Our presentations are designed to be highly engaging as well as informative and are delivered by highly experienced practitioners.